Pleasure is a love language. Gift accordingly.

Queer-centered, body-safe, and curated with care—our Holiday Gift Guides make it easy to find the perfect pleasure-forward gift for everyone on your list. Explore by vibe, personality, or play style and shop with confidence.

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About Us

Welcome to MOTHERLODE — your new favorite queer, curiosity-fueled sexual wellness shop.

We curate toys, tools, books, and body-safe goodies that actually make your pleasure more affirming, more accessible, and more joyful.

Think of us as your friendly neighborhood sex-positive general store: inclusive, shame-free, evidence-based, and built with accessibility in mind. Every item is hand-picked by AASECT-certified sex educator Cady S. Moore (hi! 👋), so you can feel confident you’re getting products that are safe, smart, and pleasure-forward.

Whether you’re here to spice things up, learn something new, explore what feels good, or shop for your next pleasure party, you’re in the right place.

Welcome home, Sexplorer.

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Sexual freedom is a basic human right, and that's why we must create a society that empowers every individual to explore, express, and enjoy their sexuality without fear, shame, or judgment.

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